KIDS!!!!!!! ARGHHHHHHH!

I have a daughter, lets call her Mae. She thinks her room can be a wreck cause it is hers. never mind that SHE didn't pay to replace three carpets in three houses due to makeup, kool aid and paint stains. She thinks she shouldn't have to do things for NOTHING in return. Like I never take her to the mall, the movies, her friends house, wash her clothes, buy her clothes AND food, pay for the roof over her head, her cell phone, the car that I take her around in, the gas that goes in the car, the electricity and internet she uses for her computer, cell phone charging, tv watching, the cable she watches, the water for her use up ALL the hot water showers. She shouldn't have to wash dishes for nothing in return. With a dishwasher I paid for. What have I EVER done for her? She should be able to just TAKE whatever she wants without asking. And heaven FORBID I say no to any request no matter how insane, expensive or just plain stupid it is or I am horrible, hate her and am trying to ruin her life. I guess asking to travel to another state halfway across the country two days before x-mas to spend the holidays with her friends and stay with ones alcoholic drug addict mother is perfectly acceptable in her 15 year old world.